My boyfriend of a year is so emotional and angry. This has been going on the past 8 months. I have tried to muster through it as long as possible but I just can’t take it anymore. We rent an apartment together and I feel like I am stuck with him. Is there anything you think I can do? Should I wait or should I just leave him?
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It’s not fair to you to have to deal with this from him. If you can be a mature adult in a relationship than he should too. It’s fine if you want to try and work with him but most of us don’t have time for that, and we are already up to our necks with our own issues. If he doesn’t seem to want to take control and get a handle on his emotions, then I certainly recommend you save up money to break your lease, and move somewhere else ALONE! I know most people would suggest that you work and work and work at it. But clearly, leaving is a big option for you because you wrote to me today about this, and you mentioned that leaving IS an option in your mind. Life is too short to be stuck with someone that is angry all the time and cramps your happiness style. DON’T waste time because we never have enough of it. Be happy!! Sure, easier said than done when it comes to moving out and breaking up, but you have to go through the hard work to get to the happy ending. If you want to stay and work it out you need to tell him straight up that if he does not take action himself to try to fix the situation, you will look into breaking the lease and moving out.