We spend our whole lives dreaming about meeting ‘The One’, but the only problem is we don’t know how to determine who is the right guy for us. When you’ve been in a relationship with a guy for a while, everything is going well, but you’re just not sure he’s the elusive Mr. Right you’ve been waiting to meet, you might start to wonder whether you’re wasting your time. The question is, how can you tell if the guy you’re with now is ‘The One’?
Does he only have eyes for you?
When you’re out and about, does he only have eyes for you? Regardless of who walks into the bar, does he keep his eyes focused firmly on you all night long? If he spends the entire night ogling you, that’s a sign that he’s serious about you and your relationship. If, however, his eyes keep darting around to look at other women, that’s a sign that it might be time to have a chat to see where things are going…
He makes you feel happy and content
Does he make you feel like your relationship is perfect and that the two of your are a great match for each other? If he makes you feel happy and content, this is a sign that he just might be Mr. Right. However, if he makes you wonder whether you’re destined to last for the long-term, then the chances are he’s not ‘The One’.
You both have the same values
A big factor when it comes to determining whether you have found Mr. Right is the values that he has, and whether you share them. It’s important that you both think the same way if you’re going to last for the long-haul, that is. Say, for instance, every morning you check the Gemini love horoscope to see what it says about you, and he laughs at you. The chances are, you’re not a good match. However, if he also checks his horoscope, this is a sign that you’re a match made in heaven.
You want the same things
When it comes to the future, do you both want the same things out of life? This is an important one, as if you don’t both want the same things, then the two of you don’t have a future together, and that’s that. If, however, you both know that you want three children, a small dog, and a house in the countryside, your chances of having a successful future are high. The more similar your hopes and dreams are, the higher your chances of success are as a couple.
Knowing if he’s Mr. Right can be hard. However, by taking note of the tips above, you can make it easier to determine whether your relationship has any chance of success. Or, whether you and your partner are having fun now but don’t have a future together. There’s no just one person out there for everyone - there are lots of Mr. Rights. It’s just a case of finding them; that’s all.