Ask Away...: Where Is The Love? Surprising Ways To Bring The Love Back To Your Relationship

Friday, October 24, 2014

Where Is The Love? Surprising Ways To Bring The Love Back To Your Relationship

When you have been in a relationship for a while, it can be difficult to maintain a level of satisfaction. Over the years, people tend to lose the fire in their relationship. You could begin to find the relationship dull and boring. If you love your partner, you should do everything in your power to ensure that you save the relationship. That means that you need to work hard to find ways to improve your relationship and make sure that the two of you are happy together. Sometimes people ignore the signs that their relationship is failing. If you are aware that there is an issue, it is time to sort it out. Here are some surprising ways you can bring the love back into your relationship.

Confront the elephant in the room

Every couple has it. There is one killer argument that always turns nasty. Over the years, you have likely learned to ignore the subject. You avoid talking about the issue so that you can avoid an argument. You might think that you are dealing with the situation well, but you are not. If something bothers you, you need to sort it out. Try talking to your partner about the subject when you are both calm. You might find that once you have cleared the air, you feel closer in your relationship.

Consider taking a break from one another

If you live with your partner, it is only natural that you begin to get on each others' nerves. There is no shame in admitting that you annoy one another from time to time. You might want to consider taking a short break from each other so that you remember how much you need one another. It might sound a little bizarre, but having some time away from each other will mean that you realize that you need each other.

Tackle any small issues

If there are small issues in your marriage, you need to tackle them. Many people will tell you to ignore small habits or mannerisms that irritate you. You should not do that. Over time, you will start to resent your partner for their annoying habits. The best thing you can do is tackle these issues head on. If your partner snores all the time, get him a snorewizard to solve the problem. If there is something he always does that you hate, tell him to stop. These small changes will change the way you feel about your partner.

Socialize without each other

When you go out, do you usually go together to see your friends? You are not one person. You need to lead separate lives sometimes. If you have the same group of friends, take turns to go out with them. That means you get to relax without your partner and know that he will be at home waiting for you. Make plans with different people so that you can socialize without your partner. When you are in a relationship for a long time, you miss being alone now and then.

Remember who you were before the relationship

When you are with someone for a long time, you start to lose your sense of identity. You don't want to become one person or merge identities with your partner. He fell in love with the person you were before you got together. Of course, people mature as they grow old, but it is important that you hold onto your sense of self. Without that, you become part of your partner. Take up hobbies that you enjoy and indulge your selfish side now and then. That will make a huge difference to your partner when you see him, as you'll seem like a new woman.

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