Ask Away...: How To Confront Relationship Problems Head-On

Tuesday, March 7, 2017

How To Confront Relationship Problems Head-On

Whether you have been in a relationship for years and years or are just embarking on a new one, somewhere down the line you are going to encounter some problems. The strongest relationships are built by people who tackle these issues head on and come out the other side. The worst thing you can do is sit back and hope the problems resolve themselves on their own. You will probably have to have some difficult conversations with your partner, but this is the only way that the problems are going to be resolved.

Some issues are very common and occur in a high number of relationships. If you feel like you have broken up before giving the relationship a real chance, my relationships center has a range of useful advice. Below are just a few of the ways in which you can deal with relationship problems.

Confront the Problem

The first stage is recognising that there is a problem in the first place. Like many things in life, the quicker you deal with the issue, the better it will be in the long run. The only way you are going to be able to confront a problem is through honest communication. If you don’t keep speaking to each other on a regular basis, you may find yourself drifting off in different directions without even knowing it.

Deal With Issues Calmly

If you are planning on bringing up a difficult issue with your partner, make sure you are not in an emotionally volatile state or overly stressed as this is likely to worsen the issue. Also, don’t bring it up completely out of the blue so you are catching your partner completely unaware. If you feel like a fight is bubbling over and emotions are threatening to cause further damage, take some time apart to cool off. You usually end up regretting a huge proportion of the things you say in anger. Try not to bring up past arguments as these remarks may no longer be true or relevant.

Put Yourself in Your Partner’s Shoes  

One of the main issues with relationships is that human beings are ultimately selfish. Some people struggle more than others to be able to see things from their partner’s point of view. Again, communication is a way of dealing with this head on. Understanding your partner as fully as you can should help you understand the way they behave in certain situations. Respect their feelings even if you don’t necessarily agree with them.

Learn to Compromise

As Maroon 5 once said “It’s compromise that moves us along” - and how can you doubt them!? You need to define what’s most important to you in a relationship. What are you willing to sacrifice in order to make things work? Ultimately, it’s all about give and take. You should not be the one who is having to make all the compromises and vice versa. If you really want to be with that person, the compromises will be worthwhile in the end.  

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