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10 Things to Remember When Buying A House

Tuesday, September 15, 2015


Our home buying process for our new house was not so bad but there were still a ton of things that had us in a tizzy. If you have ever purchased a home there is no doubt in my mind that you can relate!  Everything happens fast, and by the way it's true when they say "you're never ready trust me," when someone says "We aren't ready to buy a home yet". 

So I put together a quick list of some things to keep in mind during the home buying process so that you don't pull your hair out.

|1| Be Patient.
Things will go super fast and things will go painfully slow. It's all part of the process. Don't get too dead set on any specific date or deadline. The week before we were supposed to settle we were waiting on one little piece of paperwork. We got it 3 days before settlement but we were worried sick up until then.

|2| Keep Track of Everything.
Although the people you work with for a mortgage, inspection, etc. are paid to do what they do, that doesn't mean they won't forget something or slip up. It's crucial that you keep track of everything, follow up on things you still need, and keep track of the overall progress of everything.

|3|The Less You Have, The Easier It Is.
Take advantage of the fact that you may have some time to start purging things you don't need and packing and reorganizing the things you are keeping.  The last thing you want to do is move a bunch of junk into your new house, so take the time to go through all your possessions and ask yourself what you really need.

|4|Be Mindful of your Purchases.
Not only should you be hanging on to your money to use when you actually purchase your home and the things you need for it, but you need to be careful that you don't mess up your credit score by putting things on credit cards.   Don't shop for loans, buy a car, etc.  Nothing major. Play it cool.

|5| Know the Difference Between Wants and Needs.
You may want a house with something specific inside, but if you really need a home in a good location - make sure that you know the difference.  Certain things, like location, aren't able to be changed so if you have a specific location in mind - that can become a NEED.  You may need to be close to work, or need to be in a safe area.   Maybe you WANT a finished basement, but don't let a house with a finished basement in a bad location sway you. Needs come before Wants. 

|6|You Will Need Some Money Saved.
You may be able to get a loan with zero down, but I'm telling you - make sure you have some money set aside for the first month or so in a new house.  There are little things that will go wrong like maybe a faucet breaks or light bulbs burn out. There will be some immediate repairs needed and some little conveniences you need to purchase.  Buying décor for your home might be tempting but wait a couple months and save that money for the important necessity stuff.

|7| You Will Need Time Off Work.
I mean, I did.  Some people think they can do it all in a weekend and that's fine when you're moving in but I took a few days off to get EVERYTHING in order. I organized stuff, had cable hooked up, went shopping for all the "extras", and still had some time to relax.   It will help you mentally - trust me!

|8| Trust Your Gut.
If you have a bad feeling about a realtor, a house, or anything else - trust your gut.  This is a huge decision in your life so don't settle for something you aren't completely enthusiastic about.  Talk with friends and other professionals.  It's okay to be (a little) paranoid.

|9| Be Realistic.
You may make an offer that doesn't please the seller. That's fine but remember - if you were a seller, how would you think and feel?  Also be realistic when it comes to a house you find.  With the price of the mortgage each month, would you be able to enjoy life or would you barely be scraping by? Just because you think you found your dream home, doesn't mean it will lead to your dream life. Be smart.  Don't become house poor.

|10|You're not the only person out there.
Other people are looking for homes. Other people are looking at the homes you look at.  The world doesn't revolve around you.  Don't become devastated if someone else's offer gets accepted. That's the game of life.  That's why you should do things in a timely fashion.


What other things should people keep in mind when buying a house?







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How to Survive Shopping for a New Home as a Couple

Tuesday, September 8, 2015






If there's one thing that either makes you or breaks you as a couple it's a HUGE decision and an exhausting process...that's right I'm talking about shopping for a new home.  When we shopped for our new house it was full of all sorts of ups and downs.   Whether you are just dating, engaged, or already married here's some advice to survive the process of looking for a house.

|1| Know your Finances and What You Can BOTH Afford
Before you even start to look, make sure you both sit down and talk about how much you both make, how much you both have saved, and how much money you have to put towards a mortgage each month.   If one of you doesn't speak up or be honest - you will find yourself very stressed out when shopping for a house if your partner loves a house but it's one you can't afford. You need to be open and honest. Buying a house is a HUGE thing in life and it's nothing to hold back about.  If you can only pay XX amount per month, tell your partner.  Get pre-approved so you can see what you can afford and what your monthly payments would look like AFTER taxes are added in.  It's also important to know your credit scores.


[2] Combine & Edit Your List of Wants & Needs
You may want a ranch house but your partner wants a townhouse.  Both of you should make a list of wants and a list of needs then sit down together and compare.  Use your lists to make a combined list and then edit it down.  Remember - Needs are more important than wants, but wants can come disguised as needs.  Make sure you highlight the absolute must have items. That way if you find a house and it is missing a few of your needs you can see if they are things you can sacrifice or not. 

And if you both can't agree on certain things that's okay. You aren't building a house from scratch (well, if you are - Good luck). So it's very likely that you will find houses that have a little bit of both of your needs mixed in.  Once you're actually in a house looking around it's easier to decide if the 3 car garage is actually a need, or if you can settle without it.


|3| Communicate Communicate COMMUNICATE!
There will be times you want to flip out and scream at your partner.   It's absolutely crucial to make sure you both communicate with each other the entire time.  Don't be afraid to ask the realtor to step out of the room so you can both discuss your thoughts on a house you're touring.  Also, don't expect your partner to be a mind reader. If you aren't happy with something - say it!  

|4| Make Sure One of You Takes the Lead
While it's great to split responsibilities 50/50, if one of you can take the lead and keep track of all the paperwork, deadlines, etc. that will make a world of a difference.  Sometimes if 2 people try to do the same task, it just becomes confusing or frustrating.   One of you can be the main point of contact with your realtor as well. 


|5| Take Breaks
If you end up looking at several houses and don't like any of them but you are both stressed and feeling pressure, just stop and take a deep breathe and take a break from house shopping.  It's okay to stop looking for a couple of weeks while waiting for new homes to come up on the market. 


What have you found to be most challenging when shopping for a new home as a couple?



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