Whether you're single or in a relationship, there are some things that only girlfriends can do with you that you won't get judged for.  So here are 20 of them:

1// Gossip
You talk about someone one day and the next day you say hi to them and fake that you are interested in what they have to say.  Your boyfriend may judge you for it, but your girlfriends won't.  Men definitely think we are batshit crazy that way! 

2//Cry
It's okay to cry.   Over anything....really!   Your girlfriends always know what to say to make you feel better! 

3//Celebrate Silly Dates and Anniversaries
The day you first met, the one year mark at your job, and even your dogs birthday...Yes, your girlfriends won't think you are crazy for celebrating those, so go ahead and party!

4//Being Goofy
It's completely okay to send an ugly face photo to your girlfriends every morning...right? 

5//Vent
Your coworker pissed you off when she sneezes too loud but your boyfriend might think you are "Overreacting".... Yea right.. your girlfriends will say "Ugh, that bitch is gross!"

6//Sing and Dance while trying on clothing
Dressing rooms and bedrooms are meant for dance parties, especially while you are deciding on outfits.  Go ahead and use your hairbrush as a microphone!

7//Stuff your face
Eat whatever you want, she'll understand!

8//Tell Her Your Deepest Darkest Secrets
Lips are sealed!

9//Overanalyze Texts
Ummm did he mean Okay I hate you or Okay I love you?    Why didn't he put a period after the word "okay"?!?!

10//Bitch about your period.
Guys just don't get it.

11//Be A Facebook Stalker
She will never judge you, she'll only assist you!

12//Bitch about men for anything and everything.
Seriously, you don't have to feel mean in front of your girlfriends!

13//Talk About your Lady Parts
I mean who else are you gonna talk about that stuff to? Your doctor? Pshht!

14//Act Crazy
Everyone loses their shit.  Your girlfriends won't hold it against you!

15//Advise You on Everything
Come on, we've all been there. You can't even reply to a text without your girlfriend sgiving you the okay!

16//They Act as your bodyguards
Seriously... you hurt her, I hurt you, Buddy!

17//Give you better advice than any man ever could.
Duh, girls know best, right? Pick the black dress.... because guys will never admit that you look chubby in the other one!

18//Geak out over food!
PIZZA SUSHI CHINESE TACOS YUM YUM YUM!

19//Tell you the truth.
If anyone will call you out on something, it's definitely going to be your besties!

20//Snuggle/hold hands/hug you ANYTIME ANYWHERE
Because what are best friends for?

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Blogger BFF Dinner with Monica + My Custom Chihuahua Jar

So Sunday night I got to meet up with my Blogger BFF Monica.   I don't know if you remember her but I featured her and her blog Moda by Monika before. 

I showed off some jars I got from her etsy shop Jars by Monica and I am in love with them.  I even got a Tiffanys one! 

I met Monica at LuckyFabb on Day 2. I forget how we first started talking but we quickly learn we had many things in common. 
- We both love cars
- We both love our fur babies
- We both wear clip in extensions

Me and Monica at LuckyFABB

We began chatting and ever since then we've learned that we have a lot more in common.

- We are both down to earth
- We both love Vodka & Cranberry drinks
- We are both independent
- We both have been through some insane struggles in our life but we both have survived and become greater people because of those events. 

I've read many articles from other bloggers like I Wore Yoga Pants about finding your best friend in blog land.  

So after months of chatting, we decided to meet up at a Restaurant called Camillo's in Kutztown, PA since it was about the half way point for us.  She's from New Jersey and I'm from Pennsylvania.  

Our delicious drinks were Strawberry Shortcake Martinis!!   DELICIOUS!!

I got Stuffed Mushrooms as an appetizer and Lobster Ravioli as my entree. 

I had an absolute blast with her.  We got to learn more about each other. We totally relate on so many different aspects in our lives and I feel like she's my long lost sister!   It's very crazy how people can just appear in your life when you least expect it.

I definitely consider her a blogger bestie and real life one too.  We talk almost every day and we totally don't have any awkward moments!

But I saved the best part of this for last. I have bought several jars from Monica from her shop because I absolutely love the detail, look, and quality she puts into them!   Well she showed up for dinner with a gift bag and inside was a little chihuahua stuffed beanie and a jar.   

This was not just any jar.  Monica put four little chihuahuas on this Fur Mama jar, each made by hand with clay.   And they were each customized to look like my fur babies.  I could have cried I was so touched. This is the best most meaningful gift ever! The attention to detail is insane. 

She got all the right marking on Rocky.

She even got Grace's pink nose!

Of course Pixie's tongue is sticking out!

And she got the speckles on Stella's nose!

I am so honored to have an awesome girl like Monica as a blogger bestie AND a real life bestie.  You'll be seeing lots more of her and my adventures on this blog!!  



Do you have a blogger bestie?  How did you meet?