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The Importance of Daily Walks for Dogs

Tuesday, October 22, 2024

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People think that because I have small dogs they don't need outdoor exercise or daily walks.  But the truth is, my dogs LOVE going for the evening walk.  We may not go very far since of course Chihuahuas are so small that even a block can be a workout in warm weather but we still go on them and if I even get close to skipping a walk, my dogs let me know it's time!


Missing Our Stella

Monday, July 20, 2020


I'm keeping this short and sweet because that's all I can do right now.  Last Wednesday we lost Stella unexpectedly.  I woke up to find her early Wednesday morning.  It's been a shock and so tragic for us.  We are doing the best we can and navigating through our grief.  Stella was 10 1/2.  


Here is a tribute post I wrote for her: 




Please keep us in your thoughts.



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Dog Mom Life Hacks

Wednesday, January 15, 2020





As a dog mom of 4 Chihuahuas (and all of them being 10 or older), I would say I have a decent amount of experience on the products and hacks that make dog mom life easier. So I figured I’d share them today because sometimes reading about hacks and tips NOW can help you when you’re brainstorming for an idea in the future.

Celebrating Pixie & Grace for their Birthdays

Friday, August 30, 2019



WOW!   Almost all of my dogs are in double digits now because Stella will be turning 10 in November. Pixie and Grace share their birthdays a week apart (August 24th for Grace and August 31st for Pixie) so we celebrate them together since they are the 2 originals.  Pixie turns 14 and Grace turned 12.  ACK!!!!!



PSA: To Anyone Who Thinks I'm Obsessed With My Dogs

Monday, February 23, 2015


All my life (or at least since I was 19 years old and got my first Chihuahua) I have joked that I am a crazy dog lady.  I love that title, because after all, I AM a crazy Chihuahua chick.   What I can't get past is the eye rolls I see people do, not necessarily about me but about other people when they talk about their dog or cat.   Or when they make snide remarks like "It's just a dog/cat/rabbit/hamster,etc." 


So I decided to write a blog post that would explain why my role as a dog mom is really no different than your role as a human parent.   You see, my dogs are just like your kids in many ways, and also they are different from them in many ways.  So here is my list.  I thought if I explain it, maybe people will understand why we consider our pets as family members, just as if they were humans. 

1| My dogs are dependent on me but not just till they are in their teens.   Just like your children are dependent on you for at least 18 years of their life, my dogs are dependent on me for their WHOLE life.   It is I who will have to take care of them when they are seniors.

2| I WILL live to see them pass.  One blessing (and curse if it's the opposite) of being a parent to a human child is that your children usually outlive you.  Haven't you heard people say that's the absolute worst thing (and an unnatural thing) for a parent to have to bury their child? Well, the crappy truth is that as a pet parent, I eventually will have to make the difficult decision of when it's time to let my babies cross the rainbow bridge.  And if you have ANY friends that have had to do this, you hopefully can understand how devastating it can be. 

3| My schedule revolves around my dogs.  I can't just go from work to happy hour if I wanted to, because no matter what I always have to stop home to feed my dogs and let them out.  It's not possible to stay the night at someone's house if you can't be there in time for their breakfast and first potty of the day. 

4| They are expensive.  Vet bills add up, as do food and grooming costs.  Oh and pet insurance? It doesn't work out to everyone's advantage, especially if you haven't had it since your dog was a puppy.  

5| My dogs get sick. Just like your kids get sick, my dogs get colds, coughs, allergies, and bumps and bruises. Oh and just like your kids, they need the proper nutrition to stay healthy, and I'm NOT just talking about Grocery Store Dog Kibble. 

6| They have behavioral issues.  Some dogs don't like strangers, or strange dogs, or loud sounds, or obeying rules.   They can destroy your favorite shoe just like a child could! 

7| Each dog has their own personality.  When one isn't around, the entire energy in my house is different because that dog's special energy is missing. Pixie is the smart bossy girl, Stella is sweet and cuddly, Rocky is loyal and loves to be held, and Grace is the dependable sidekick. 

8| I miss them when I'm gone.  When I'm away from home, I miss them, just as you miss your child when they are at school.  And they miss me.  If you don't believe that a dog can miss it's owner just go to Youtube and watch some of the awesome reunions between a dog and their owner.   

9| I miss work for them.  Vet appointments and emergencies can pull you away from your job and other regular commitments.  

10| They are not my whole life but they make my life whole.  So when you see me post about them, just know that what it looks like to you, is what your posts about your kids look like to a pet parent. 

11| Tolerance.   Basically, what I want you to know is that if YOU are annoyed by or get irritated with someone talking about their pets and how much they love them, then that's YOUR problem, not mine.   I can tolerate people talking about their kids even though I don't have any.  I can relate through my pets.  


I repeat... if you are annoyed with me talking about my dogs or sharing photos of them on Facebook then the problem is within YOU, not me. 

You do not have to agree with my love for my dogs and you certainly don't have to understand it, but if you can't respect it then keep it to yourself.  I always tell people that if you were to tell a pet parent "It's just your stupid cat" it would hurt them the same way it would if someone said "It's just your stupid kid." 


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5 Steps to Safer Road Trips with Pets

Tuesday, December 16, 2014

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The scary and real scenario of a car accident when your pet is in the car with you is something every pet parent has nightmares about.  So when it comes to safety, I always make sure all four of my babies are safely restrained when travelling.    I follow these 5 tips when travelling.

1. Buckle Up
Seatbelts are VITAL. That's why I love the Sherpa Safety Suite.  It fits over a standard dog carrier like the one below and allows me to buckle my pets in.

Sherpa Safety Suite available at Bed Bath & Beyond





It fits into standard carseat safety locks and prevents tipping,sliding, and lateral shifting with it's 6-sided restraint system. It's safety tested too. It's so easy to put in and I know that if something happens, I took the extra steps to ensure doggy safety.

2. Potty Breaks
Just like humans, dogs need potty breaks too. Make sure you have a leash to hook your pet up to when you are letting them find a place to go.  And of course, only let your dog use the potty in a pet-friendly area.  Use common sense :)

3.  Pack Snacks and Fresh Water
Especially if you are going on a long road trip with your pets, always make sure to pack some snacks and fresh water that you keep up front, or easily accessible. You can easily purchase and on the go mobile dog water bottle/dish for easy packing.  

4. Dress for the Weather
I mean your pet, not you!  If it's frigid cold out, your pet may get cold in the backseat, so make sure to pack a blanket or a doggy coat!

5. ALWAYS Restrain Pets
I see some people travel with little dogs in a carrier but they don't bring a collar, harness, or leash. It's absolutely vital to bring those things. You never know what situation may come up where you need to have your dog properly restrained. 

 
What tips do you have for travelling with pets?
 






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10 Things to Consider Before Getting A Dog

Tuesday, January 21, 2014


I love my four Chihuahuas, and while four may seem like a lot to some, it's my life and I wouldn't have it any other way.  Some people spend money on their hobbies like cars, shopping, and home improvement project, but my hobby, and my life, is taking care of my Chihuahuas. I absolutely love my babies more than anything else in this world so that’s enough for me. I never complain about the responsibilities or costs of owning a dog, let alone 4!


Keep in mind that owning a pet, especially a dog, is certainly not for everyone. Anytime you see someone looking for a new home for their dog, that’s a perfect example of a person who thought they were ready but in the end couldn’t fully commit. I say that because I have already experienced a tough decision of having to move home in order to keep all 4 dogs, as no apartment complex would have taken all 4.   Giving one or two up even temporarily is NOT an option.   And if I didn’t have the option to move home, I would never have owned my babies, but I knew that would always be an option for me. 
When you make the decision to get a dog, you have to think long term.  So in order to help you or anyone else determine if they are ready to commit, I put together a list of 10 things to consider before you make the decision to get a dog.
And remember, not every dog will have these things apply to them, but still, much of this list is applicable in the majority of cases.

1. Initial Cost if purchased from a breeder
A dog can cost anywhere from $0-$1,000 depending on the breed and situation. If you think $500 is a ridiculous price for a dog from a breeder, then let me explain to you how they price them. A good breeder does it for the love of the breed, not to make a profit, because in the end they rarely make a profit. I know this for a fact because I have several responsible breeders as friends.  The cost of most dogs includes these little expenses that add up to the breeder:
  • Vet bills for first checkup
  • Vet bills for delivery of pups (some dogs need C-section)
  • Lighting/Heat/Electricity in the room where puppies are born
  • Food costs
  • Time off work to care for the puppies
  • Vet bills for the mom while pregnant
  • Supplies for newborn pups (blankets, bedding for birth)


I will say that you get what you pay for, and if you buy from a quality breeder that breeds dogs for tempermant. If someone is giving them away for free, it may be because they were an accident and the father might not even be owned by the breeder.   That means you won’t necessarily know the background or any medical conditions that could be inherited.  There is NOTHING wrong with that and I am a huge supporter of rescuing and adopting dogs, but some people aren't able to handle a dog that may not be  

2. Initial Cost if adopted.
Adoption dogs usually have a small fee and it can cover the costs of a spay/neuter and their initial shots. However sometimes there's a non-monetary price to pay when adopting a dog, so make sure you do your research about each dog and read why they are there, and how their behavior has been. I’ll get to the other details with rescue dogs later. Adopting a dog is GREAT to give it a home, just make SURE you are ready because it’s a TERRIBLE thing to adopt a dog, and then end up giving it up down the road. No animal deserves to be in a shelter, so let’s keep them out of there and give them great homes where they WON’T be surrendered.
Sofa Covers, Doggie Blankets, and Steps are a common site in a dog owner's house

3. Sacrificing Luxuries in Your Everyday Life
I don’t even remember what it’s like to come home and go straight to your computer, sit down, and watch TV right away.  Taking a nap the second you walk in the door, what's that? When I walk in the door, I have 4 dogs dancing and yipping at me, that immediately need taken out to the bathroom, fed, monitored so no one steals food, taken out again to go number 2, and then tidied up after if they make a mess. I don’t just do this because I love them; I do it because it’s what's right.   Would you come home to a crying baby and leave it in it’s crib for 20 minutes so you can nap? No, you would tend to it right away. That’s the same for a dog.
Another luxury is the ability to stay somewhere overnight last minute whenever you please. When you own a dog, you need to make sure you are there to feed it in the morning, and let it out as often as possible . If you can’t accept that responsibility, then you certainly aren’t ready. Also, sleeping in isn’t as common when you have a dog that needs to go out or be fed.
And if you have expensive decor or other items in your home, you better be willing to dog-proof the place or make sure you get the breed that's best fit for your living situation.   
Here are some things you’ll find in a dog proof home, like mine:
  • No food or plates ANYWHERE but on a table
  • No books close to the ground
  • No piles of laundry
  • No shoes sitting out of a closet
  • No trash cans without a lid or being elevated
Be prepared and accept that while you have to live a more cautious lifestyle, you get the great joy of having a furry companion by your side!


Tired Puppy

4. Initial Care Costs
When you first get a dog, it’s important to get them to the Veterinarian for an initial checkup and get them in the system.  I don’t know about your vet, but I know the prices for mine and I don’t care if some people can get it done cheaper, I like the quality that comes from the great staff at mine.  

Some costs to consider are:

First Check Up:
Appointment Fee - $30-$50
Rabies Shot - $40-$50

In the first year it’s also HIGHLY recommended (DO IT!) to get your dog spayed or neutered. The price will differ depending on the size of the dog and the gender but there are a lot of breakdowns in cost as well, that should always be considered.
For example:
Anesthesia - $100 (that’s just for a dog 45 pounds or less)
Fluids - $37 (Recommended so your dog is more comfortable and healthy waking up)
Blood work - $50 (optional in most cases but a good idea so you know the true health of your new dog)
Spay/neuter - $100-$200 (it’s usually more expensive for females b/c it’s more invasive)



Poor Rocky had a small bump removed from his noggin.  He looks like a football head!

5. Ongoing Care Costs
Generally, a dog needs to visit the vet once a year to get their regular vaccination. Rabies shots are every 3-5 years. Regardless, here’s a basic breakdown of yearly costs for owning a dog.
Vaccines:$40-$50
Health Checkup Office Visit: $30-$40
And here is a breakdown of some other expenses that you may need over the years:
Dental cleaning:$200-300 (generally once or twice in a dog’s lifetime)
Flea and Tick treatments: $100-$200 a year (6-12 treatments)
Sick dog checkup and meds: $100
Emergency Vet Visit Appointment Charge: $75-$100


Even at the age of 21 I was responsible enough to own 2 dogs

6. Maintenance
A dog needs money invested in it in order to stay healthy and happy.  
Grooming: You can either pay to have it done, or make sure you take the time and patience to do it yourself with monthly bathing, nail trimmings, teeth brushing, hair clippings, etc. Also, the Furminator is a great brush so that your dog sheds less and there’s less hair around your home.
Proper Exercise to stay in shape: You should play with (fetch for example) or walk your dog at least once a day. 

7. Proper Diet Knowledge and Cost
Sure, you can feed your dog any old food from the grocery store, but they will have a better quality of life if fed a proper nutritious diet.  I feed my dogs Blue Buffalo which is all natural. It may cost more than a crappy bag at the grocery store but it lasts longer because it’s more nutritionally dense. So the cost of dog food can range anywhere from $20-$50 a month for one dog.



8.Training/Behavior
You can’t just get a dog and expect it to be over and done with. You have to consider training ($100 at Petsmart), time spent practicing, the efforts and patience needed for potty training, correcting bad behavior, and socializing your dog so it can safely interact with other animals and people. There are correct and incorrect ways to discipline a dog, for example rubbing it’s nose in its poo or pee IS NOT OKAY! Always read up on proper discipline tips and tricks and make sure you invest in training. It works wonders, I promise you! Also, be prepared for accidents in the house. Your dog is learning, just like a baby does, so you can’t expect them to get it right in the beginning.
Another thing to consider is the hardships of the first few days with a puppy. They will cry when you leave them alone but you HAVE to stand strong and not give in so they can learn that crying won't work.  Every dog needs to see that their master WILL come home, will be there in the morning, and won't abandon them.  If you end up spoiling and babying a dog, you’ll regret it down the road!

The rewarding appreciation in the eyes of a rescued dog

9. Emotional Attachment
This isn’t a bad thing at all, but it’s something that you need to make sure you can handle. The price we pay for getting to share our lives with beautiful creatures like dogs is that their lifespan is less than that of a human.  Selfless love is very necessary especially in the end.   When the "TIME" comes, are you able to make a good decision to benefit your dog rather than fulfill your own selfish needs of not having to say goodbye yet?   Once you experience the loss of a pet, you’ll understand (hopefully) that it’s still a worthwhile investment for your heart to own a pet, regardless of how sad you’ll be someday. I know some people are afraid to own a pet ever again after they experience the loss. 



Baby Pixie and her bear in bed

Adult Pixie still lounging in bed with her bear

10. Commitment
Owning a dog is a lifetime commitment, for the lifetime of the dog of course. Consider everything you can when making the initial decision, such as:
  • Can you keep this dog in an apartment?
  • Can you hold on to it through a move, job loss, or new baby?
  • Does this breed fit my lifestyle?
  • Can I manage to clean up poop, pee, vomit, and who knows what else?
  • Can I afford the upkeep for this dog?
  • Do I have enough spare time to properly devote to this dog?
I truly hope this information helps you make a responsible decision when it comes to bringing a dog into your life.  
What other things should be considered?  And what stories do you have of the decision to share your life with a furry friend?

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