At 26, I can safely say that I've learned a lot over the past 6 years...so much so that if I could tell myself at age 20, the things I've learned now, I think I would have had a more peaceful 20-year-old mind.
So here is what I would tell my 20 year old self:
1. Do NOT use your credit cards!! - Especially not on things that make you feel good during stressful times. Seriously, just cut those cards up NOW!!
2. Put $20 into your savings every paycheck - just do it!! After 6 years, you'll have over $3,000.00.
3. Stop buying stuff you don't need. Novelty stuff is silly and you'll end up throwing it away in several years anyways, trust me I know this! ;)
4. Don't compare your body to anyone elses. You are supposed to be unique, so just embrace it!
5. Going out to bars is a waste of money and time. Be more productive with your time and make better memories.
6. When it comes to relationships, don't waste time with anyone that isn't worth it. Whether they are selfish, lazy, or abusive in any way shape or form.
7. It's okay to not be married already. You're the smart one at such a young age.
8. Only worry about having 1 or 2 close friends. The rest of them all disappear over the next few years anyways.
9. Stay out of the sun. Just do it.
10. Enjoy every sunset you see, every flower you can smell, and every beautiful scene of nature you witness. These are the things that throughout life will always give you a few moments of joy and peace. You won't remember them all, but it's okay.
What would you tell yourself?
So here is what I would tell my 20 year old self:
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1. Do NOT use your credit cards!! - Especially not on things that make you feel good during stressful times. Seriously, just cut those cards up NOW!!
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| photo by EricGjerde | via PhotoRee |
2. Put $20 into your savings every paycheck - just do it!! After 6 years, you'll have over $3,000.00.
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| photo by 8lettersuk | via PhotoRee |
3. Stop buying stuff you don't need. Novelty stuff is silly and you'll end up throwing it away in several years anyways, trust me I know this! ;)
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| photo by dhammza | via PhotoRee |
4. Don't compare your body to anyone elses. You are supposed to be unique, so just embrace it!
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5. Going out to bars is a waste of money and time. Be more productive with your time and make better memories.
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| photo by Jane Rahman | via PhotoRee |
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What would you tell yourself?
this was great advice! as a 23 yr old i really took these to heart.... even teared up with a couple...
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